Retailers have edged the Christmas buying season up so that it now begins before Halloween! “Black Friday” has spawned “Cyber Monday” for online shopping; and the mobs of super-sales shoppers have become violent in their quest for “the deal.” The number of younger people who have never watched nor heard of “It’s a Wonderful Life” has exploded as younger generations can’t understand how anyone could watch a movie in black and white, especially one without explosive special effects. And the second biggest retail day is the day after Christmas when the stores are jammed with unhappy gift recipients seeking to cash in on the day-after sales. Is this what “the season” is about?
Fortunately my memories of Christmas are of a simpler time. I rarely had money to buy gifts for my family members, but I always had wrapped presents for every one of them. Granted, my knitted-with-my-own-hands scarves and sweaters were probably only worn once (when they were tried on) and my paintings and other artwork were hung/hidden on walls in a room rarely used; but the spirit of the gift was cherished long after the January blues had melded into spring. (The “coupons” I gave for “I’ll do your Saturday chores” or “one car wash” helped extend the experience of the gift and didn’t cost me a dime!) The day after Christmas was not a shopping day for our family but rather the day my mom supervised our thank you notes writing to relatives who had sent us monetary gifts or those items that got stashed in the closet until after the gift-giver’s first visit when we could display or wear it for a show of appreciation. Today too many grandparents are thrilled if they receive a text message from the grandchildren in response to their generosity.
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